We at Inclusive and Affirming Ministries (IAM) are deeply disappointed by the Provincial Synod’s decision to reject the proposal to allow bishops to approve the blessing of couples in same-sex unions in parishes that welcome this ministry. This decision, along with the rejection of a set of prayers drawn up by bishops for providing pastoral ministry to members in civil unions, feels like a missed opportunity to move toward a more inclusive and compassionate expression of faith.
While we recognize the complexity of these discussions, the decision to withhold blessings and deny prayers of pastoral care to those in civil unions further marginalizes individuals who seek nothing more than to live fully in the light of God’s love. Through our work, we also know that religious-instigated forms of hostility meted out against LGBTIQ+ people have been the root cause of the perpetuation of violence, hate speech and hate crimes.
The theological insights offered by Bishop Raphael Hess and Bishop Stephen Diseko during the debates were grounded in love, respect for conscience, and the universal recognition of human dignity. The reference to Pope Francis’ teachings, which underscore that everyone is loved by God and that blessings can be extended to all without compromising the traditional doctrine of marriage, shows that inclusion is possible within the framework of Christian faith.
The Synod’s choice to move away from this compassionate path suggests that much work remains to be done in the journey toward full inclusion. However, we remain hopeful and committed to fostering spaces where LGBTIQ+ individuals feel affirmed, supported, and welcomed in their faith communities. IAM will continue to advocate for pastoral care and recognition of the diversity of sexual orientation within the Church and other faith communities, inspired by the deep conviction that all people are created in the image of God.
We call on church leaders and faith communities to reflect on the consequences of this decision and to seek ways to embody the love and justice that are at the core of our faith.
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